1) Stop playing the weight loss game and get into fat loss.
If you are still using a scale to measure your progress in body change, it will be virtually impossible to know what kind of weight you are losing. Just because you are losing weight does not mean you are losing fat. Too often it is not fat people are losing but rather water or even worse, muscle. This leads to yo-yo dieting and weight rebound. A loss of muscle will make the metabolism less efficient in the long run. This is a key reason why chronic dieters have a more difficult time getting any sort of result as they age. To avoid this issue get something to monitor fat loss.
2) Stop counting calories and start paying attention to your body.
Counting calories is a one-size-fits-all process that works for very few. Instead of trying to practice food avoidance or portion control, pay attention to the signals your body sends. After each meal, monitor hunger, cravings and energy levels. These sensations can act as biofeedback tools that give you insight into your hormonal fat burning metabolism and help you adjust your diet. By eating in a way that generates less hunger and cravings and more stable energy you can fine tune your diet to the perfect approach for you. Eating this way will result in eating less calories without even trying and will turn weight loss to fat loss. One hint, protein and fiber are the key tools to balance these sensations so eat more of them.
3) Learn the process and stop doing protocols
Your body does not conform to simple math equations and does not respond like everyone else. You are unique and therefore require an approach that matches your individual metabolism. Instead of following a one-size-fits-all diet, or an off the shelf program, spend some time finding out your own fat loss formula. Approaching body change this way assures you will have something that always works even when your metabolism goes through changes (aging, children, menopause, etc.).
4) Don’t just eat healthy, eat for fat loss
A healthy diet does not always equal a fat loss diet, but a fat loss diet almost always equals a healthy diet. There are plenty of healthy foods that may not help your fat loss goals. While whole grains, nuts, dairy, and fruits are all healthy, some or all of them may need to be minimized according to your individual metabolic processes. Spend time figuring out what can stay and what needs to go. It won’t be the same for everyone.
5) BE, DO, HAVE
It is important to understand that the way many people go about change is backwards. Most people think if they simply DO something different, they will then HAVE what they want and BEcome a different person. This is often stated as the DO, HAVE, BE mindset. Or, they may feel if they are given something, like money (HAVE), they will be able to DO all the stuff they want and will BEcome a different person. This is the HAVE, DO, BE mindset. Both of these models are wrong. To make a true change, you have to BE the thing you are trying to become right now in the present moment. Then you will automatically DO the things necessary to HAVE what you desire…..BE, DO, HAVE
6) No Victim Talk and no blame
There is no room for blame in change. Resist the temptation to use the behaviors of others to justify your own. Just because your spouse, coworkers and others around you eat junk and are sedentary has nothing to do with you. Surround yourself with the support system you need. Take all blame, expectation, judgment, and excuses out of your mindset. Your success or failure is 100% up to you. You are either going to do it or not, it is up to you.
7) Eat Preemptively
Many people take an eat less approach to body change. Problem is you live in a body designed through the centuries to seek out food and maximize fat storage. This is an ancient survival mechanism we humans inherited from our ancestors who lived in a time where the next meal was never guaranteed. Now you live in a world where sweet, fatty, salty, and addictive food is on every corner. You can’t win a battle of wills against your physiology. Very few people can simply eat less and avoid food, and if you are overweight there is little chance you are one of them. Instead of fasting, eating less, or practicing food avoidance, eat preemptively. By eating more of the right things more often you can “preempt” hunger, cravings, and drops in blood sugar that lead you to make the poor choices in the first place.
8 ) Exercise for ME, meaning you
Exercise in a way that works for your body. Rest-based training is a good way to do that since it allows you to exercise at a high intensity, but do it at a manageable level and progress at your own pace. Not only does this mean you should avoid the popular boot camp trends of “keep going” and “out compete”, it also means choosing programs that suit you. While there is certainly a best approach for body change (see below), the bulk of your exercise should be something you love and can be consistent with.
9) Realize there is a best approach to body change
To get the most out of exercise, research shows cross-training is best. Some of us like to lift weight and some like cardio. Others like yoga and some like swimming. The best approach for body change involves cardiovascular exercise combined with weight training. If you want to lose fat and not muscle you need to learn to weight train and not simply try to “run off” the weight. There are many good programs, including the metabolic effect workouts, that utilize weight training in a way that generates a cardio effect. Search for these type programs. Some good ones include Crossfit, Metabolic Effect’s system of Metabolic Physique Conditioning, some forms of Power Yoga, and metabolic conditioning programs run by many good personal trainers.
10) Sleep and Stress
Neither one of these things have calories but we all know they drastically impact how we feel, whether we exercise or not and what we choose to eat. Research shows 8 hours of sleep a night can make a huge difference in hunger, cravings, and energy levels. It is your choice. Is staying up late to watch your favorite TV show worth more than body change?
Comment below a mindset tip you've learnt over your weight loss journey, I'd love to hear them :)
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